A Conversation with John Wineland and Stefanos Sifandos
Create Spheres of Safety
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1h 36m
If you want to deepen as a coach or become a more impactful teacher, this video is for you. John and Stefanos Sifandos share their nuanced wisdom on what makes a good coach, questions that reveal the shadows you may unknowingly be bringing to your clients, tangible ways to inspire more trust, and practical tips for relationship coaches working with couples.
You will also learn:
* The two things you should get clear on before working with the opposite gender
* What you will likely get triggered by as a coach
* How to avoid dumping your childhood wounds on clients and calling it coaching
* Working with clients on strategy isn’t enough and what you should be cultivating instead
* John’s new framework and how he uses it support couples and anyone desiring more closeness, safety, or chemistry in their relationships
* How you can use a “safeword” to stop fights before they start
* The pitfalls of being overly attached to your client having a breakthrough
* What holding space is and what it is NOT
* What you can do in the moment if you get triggered while coaching or teaching
* How you can support couples who have lost their spark
* The danger of transmitting your wounds
* The importance of slowing down, living what you coach or teach, and becoming a master
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