What energy do you bring to sex and love? What is powerful and magnetic about the way you love? And where do you feel yourself holding back? It can be difficult to step beyond the familiar—to move outside the habits and patterns we’ve built—especially when we are uncertain of how our partners, th...

Do you feel a disconnect between having a relaxed nervous system and stoking the fires of passion in your relationship? Does it seem as though deep relaxation and erotic energy exist on opposite ends of a spectrum—one requiring surrender and softness, the other requiring intensity and desire? The...

Do you struggle to boldly claim your desire and yearning? Maybe you hesitate, afraid of how it will be received—worried it will feel more like a demand than an offering of your deepest heart. Do you grip onto expectations, attaching your fulfillment to something or someone outside of yourself? Ha...

You witness her move through the endless waves of emotion—some soft and easy to hold, others fierce and overwhelming. You long to expand your capacity, to be the unwavering presence she can trust when the storm rises. You desire to open your heart, feel what she needs, and respond—not from reacti...

The simple act of seeking pleasure from within, for yourself and by yourself, can feel unfamiliar. It asks you to acknowledge the ways in which society has conditioned us to seek fulfillment from others, from external sources, and material things. True pleasure—the kind that nourishes your soul—e...

For many women, feeling the pulse of love moving through their bodies can feel distant, buried beneath the weight of life’s demands—work, home, partnership, parenting, and the collective uncertainties of the world. You sense what is possible, you feel the yearning for love’s fullness, but the sto...

As you move through the day, the energies of life and love are constantly intertwining—shifting, merging, and often becoming indistinguishable from one another. This merging can feel magical, a seamless current of connection and presence. Yet, there are times when the two must be untangled, where...

Within every heart lies a yearning to be fully seen, deeply felt, and unconditionally loved. The truths you’ve hidden, the textures of your being you’ve tucked away for fear of rejection, are the very gifts the world is aching to receive. Can you reveal these truths to invite your partner to meet...

Every moment calls us to meet it in a unique way, inviting us to respond from the depth of our presence. We have an infinite capacity to sense, attune, and shape the energy of each moment. Perhaps your partner feels ungrounded or unsettled—can you feel into their heart and bring the grounding pow...

As a man, asking for what you want can be overwhelming. But, standing in front of the temple priestess, tell her, what is your deepest heart's desire? How do you yearn to be gifted this desire? She knows pleasure, she knows the ways of the heart and the body. Can you trust and surrender to her kn...

The desire of the feminine is a gift unto itself, yet for many women, fully owning and expressing that desire can be one of the most challenging acts. The gift of the masculine is to lovingly witness and hold her in her desire, while calling her forward into deeper expression and truth. Together,...

In this compilation, from the December 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy, John focuses on identifying, distinguishing, and working with your needs. David Deida was the featured teacher for this workshop and is referenced by John in this compilation.

You’ll learn:

* Our deepest needs are non-negoti...

You are beginning to become aware of your habits. You want to experience true freedom, but this feels impossible when even innocent addictions, like caffeine, become an unconscious crutch. You want to find a healthy alternative to caffeine for combating exhaustion.

In this practice, John will g...

Your desires are transmissions of the Divine moving through you. They are the purest expression of your humanity. Allow them to fully inhabit your body, your practices and your life - and they will become magnetic.

In this masterclass, recorded on January 8, 2022 with a world-wide virtual audien...

In this practice from The Valentine's Immersion 2022, John leads partners through a solo breath practice to enliven the body and open the heart before inviting them into connection to share and meet the essence of each other’s deepest heart’s desires. Both partners will have the opportunity to gi...

In this combined lecture, Q&A, and practice from the 2022 Embodied Women’s Relationship Immersion, Nicholette Routhier invites you into an embodied exploration of your energy field. You’ll learn to feel the boundary between where you end and others begin, how to be as fully energetic as you want ...