Transmit Evoke Deepen - Part Two
For Couples: Teachings
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You and your partner want to enhance the passion and polarity in your relationship dynamic. You may have a foundational understanding of masculine and feminine energetics, but you may not feel confident embodying them. You want your intimacy to feel deep and sacred, but you don’t even know where to start.
In this compilation of teaching sessions from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John asserts that you are free and empowered to transmit, and hence, evoke, whatever you want in your life and your relationships. In order to bring a clean transmission to the world, your "transmitter" (i.e. your body) has to be meticulously sharpened, opened, and deepened. This is the yogic practice of spiritual intimacy.
If you want to enhance the magnetism in your intimate relationship, this 6-video compilation will offer a vast array of tools to guide your path.
You will learn:
- Your body is a transmitter and you have choice over how to move that transmission through your body
- You're transmitting what you're focusing on and what's happening in your body all the time
- Most of the time our transmissions are unconscious
- You're always evoking from your environment based on the transmission through your body
- You have the power to evoke something different from your environment
- You have to become clear about what you want to transmit and what you want to evoke
- Depth, presence, and consciousness evoke trust and devotion
- Masculine and Feminine energies create polarity, regardless of gender
- The pure Masculine transmission is consciousness; the pure Feminine transmission is love light
- In a polarized sexual moment, one partner is agreeing to animate and transmit consciousness and depth (the Masculine transmission), and one partner is agreeing to transmit pleasure and energy (the Feminine transmission) and when that happens, you can create a hot arc of sexual polarity
- Why twerking is a spiritual practice
- The Feminine heart is highly responsive, and constantly sifting for where the love is in any moment
- The more Feminine you are, the more you are sensitive to the amount of love in the moment
- Responsiveness is the Feminine heart's truth transmitted through the body
- How feminine responsiveness evokes more consciousness from the Masculine
- The Masculine in all of us wants peace
- One of the best ways to end an argument is to help the Feminine to be fully expressed as fast as possible
- In a moment of complaint, the Feminine really wants the Masculine to tussle with her
- Bringing sexual energy to a moment of upset and moving your partner's Feminine body with your Masculine body will free more love in the moment
- Almost every Feminine complaint is a reflection of Masculine consciousness in the moment, so she becomes an oracle for your consciousness
- The difference between habit and authenticity
- How you can transmit Feminine energy through your own trustable Masculine structure
- How you can skillfully move between Masculine and Feminine energies
- Why meticulous Masculine structure evokes more trust in the Feminine
- The key for experiencing cervical orgasms
- How to playfully call out more attention and presence from your masculine partner
- How you can tell if you gifted your partner with a deep and beautiful practice
- Part of the Masculine gift is to liberate what's true
- How you can be a Yes when your partner is withdrawn and resistant
- How you can make your whole body an invitation for more love and intimacy
- How to be with the discomfort when love calls you to wait
- How you can ground your Feminine partner's energy with your breath, awareness, and Masculine structure in your body
- Why the Feminine yearns to be ravished
- What it takes to shift your relationship karma
- How the Feminine can both can honor the truth of your heart, the part of you that doesn't want love to end, and the part of you that knows that your masculine partner is doing their best
- How you can love your Masculine partner fully while giving them the space that their nervous system craves
- The difference between the Masculine and Feminine drama
- Most Masculine pain is rooted in constraint
- Letting yourself feel the pain of disconnection is the way into connection
- How, as a Masculine partner, you can evoke the Feminine in your partner through praise, deepening your breath to "out-Masculine" them, or flowing with them until they soften
- How a man can practice non-ejaculatory sex while staying fully connected to his partner
- The principles of embodied Masculine practice
- How you can recognize and integrate the Masculine and Feminine within yourself
- How you can practice adding sensation to your awareness
- How the Masculine can communicate their need for space and nourishment to their Feminine partner in a supportive and embodied way
- Don't focus on "I should be more Masculine" or "more Feminine" and instead, bring awareness to the habits of your body-mind and continually align to what you want to transmit
- How a Feminine partner can practice relaxing the impulse to direct in order to allow their Masculine partner to take the lead
- How your core beliefs impact the transmission through your body
- How a Feminine being can safely reveal their sacred sexual gifts on a date
- How you can bring fierceness while staying connected to your partner
- How a Masculine partner can embody safety for their Feminine partner
- Why John asserts that sex is the deepest yoga
- Why being a full Yes to your own feelings is important for deepening intimacy with your partner
- How you can stay in intimate practice while deep emotions arise
- How you can bring anger and anguish to one another while staying connected to your hearts
- The difference between performing and amplifying your own pleasure
- The importance of taking space to reset and evaluate the unhealthy patterns that drive your relationships
- Like any yoga, it's normal to have great openings in these practices and then return to your habits
Disclaimer: Although anyone may find this video to be useful, it is made available with the understanding that we are not engaged in presenting specific medical, psychological, emotional, sexual or spiritual advice. Nor is anything in this video intended to be a diagnosis, prescription, recommendation or cure for any specific kind of medical, psychological, emotional, sexual or spiritual problem. Each individual has unique needs and this video cannot take these individual differences into account. Each person should engage in a program of treatment, prevention, cure, or general health only in consultation with a licensed, qualified physician, therapist or other competent professional. Any person suffering from a sexually transmitted disease or any local illness of his or her sexual organs should consult a medical doctor and a qualified instructor of sexual yoga before practicing the sexual methods described in this video.
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