We all have certain grooves that we fall into when we are in the realms of Sex and relating. Some are conscious and habitual, others inherited. The beauty of sex and relating is that it is a rich, fertile space through which we can receive reflection, harness our artistry and expand our capacity and range always asking ourselves, “what is this in service of?”

In this 13-minute teaching from The Embodied Men's Leadership Training (Panamint, 2025) John holds a discussion with the men on the importance of artistry, and range in their sex and relating.

Let this teaching be an invitation into a new way of thinking about how you show up in your sex and relationships. Pay attention to the feedback from those around you because generally what the world is carving more of from you is also what your woman is craving more of from you.