There is a way the feminine longs to be felt and expressed — and there is a way the world has conditioned the masculine to respond. But polarity isn’t a fixed performance of roles. It’s a living dance between love and consciousness, between presence and feeling, between two beings attuned to the truth of the moment.

In this 9-minute teaching from The Embodied Men’s Leadership Training (Panamint, 2025), John invites a deeper look into the paradox of polarity — how we often block the very love we long to receive, and how true polarity isn’t about rigidly inhabiting one pole, but about cultivating the fluid integration of both within us.

This is an opportunity to move beyond the black and white of masculine and feminine, and into the wide, nuanced grey — the space where real intimacy lives. Where presence responds to desire. Where embodiment opens the field of connection.

Let this teaching challenge your ideas of polarity, and invite you into a more integrated, responsive, and heart-connected way of being.