Office Hours Group Coaching Call - December 15th, 2020
1h 40m
The twenty-first Virtual Workshop "Office Hours" group coaching call with John.
You'll learn:
- your truth is a fire that clarifies your relationships
- the feminine in all of us often has conflicting truths
- how you can set a boundary with an ex-partner
- the importance of being a deep stand for what you truly need in relationship
- how a feminine partner can speak to their masculine partner about their true desires in life and in love
- how a feminine being can allow themselves to follow their heart and relax into love, even if that means being taken care of
- how you can create containers for rituals to move from the headspace of work into the heartspace - for the feminine, this happens through pleasure; for the masculine, through freedom
- for the feminine, making the decision to relax into love can be a very nourishing experience, but it can also feel scary and groundless, especially if it works against your programming; if it makes your body feel good, you're on the right track
- the feminine can find purpose by asking "How do I want to share my love with the world?"
- grief needs space and freedom from demand
- we focus on our partners to avoid focusing on our own hearts
- how you can create containers to give yourself permission to own your darkness in your personal feminine practice
- the importance of feeling the feelings in your heart and revealing them by opening them out like a flower versus projecting them forward like a fire hose
- complaining is the least devotional expression, revealing is second best, making art from the revealing is the most devotional
- devotion is not always sticky gooey love - it could be revealing your anger for the sake of love.
- why we have to take responsibility for our own emotional states
- when you consciously open wide with an emotion, it occurs as nourishment to the masculine
- when you're thinking about the past, your body will make the closure of that trauma response, but if you go into the present feelings still in your body as a result of the past, you are in the truth of this moment