John began this call with a discussion on the difference between magnetism and calling in a partner from a list and how one puts the onus on us and the other puts the onus on the other person. It is important that we first and foremost put the onus on us to be the person who will magentise in the partner we so desire. And that we are all innately vulnerable.

Discussion questions included:

1. Feedback and reflection on a relationship ending as he was wanting to explore poly and she wasn't.

2. The collapse that happens as practice deepens - with self and others.

3. Her being on purpose (more of the masculine energy) has caused flipped polarity and issues in the relationship.

4. Worried about attending a polarity workshop without her partner.

5. She is softening and deepening and wanting to deepen further but she is feeling stuck.

6. How to tend to a hurt heart.

7. What is she doing that keeps triggering her partner.