In this Q&A session from the 2022 Valentine’s Intensive, John answers questions on how to embody your heart’s desires, specific ways to create polarity when you live and work with your partner, and ways you can tend to your partner’s nervous system when they’ve hit their edge.

Who this compilation is for:

The teaching sessions in this video are ideal for anyone who wants to know how to take a desire and learn to transmit it through their body in a way that is magnetic. John works 1:1 with both a masculine and a feminine practitioner to demonstrate this.

You’ll find more detailed clip descriptions with timestamps below.

If you have a question about any of the content in the Virtual Workshop, we highly encourage you to bring it to John during one of our monthly Office Hours calls that are included with your membership. You can find the dates and times of the upcoming calls here: https://www.johnwineland.com/streaming

Topics in this compilation include:

Clip #1 [00:18] - Embodying “He who must be worshiped”
• John works with a masculine practitioner to transmit desire through his body;
• There is a difference between fully owning a desire versus strategizing on how to have your desire met;

Clip #2 [04:00] - Dominate the space and pin her with consciousness
• How to bring dominance in ways other than physically;
• The impact of moving slowly;
• How to transmit consciousness through the body;

Clip #3 [06:53] - Feeling into what she doesn’t even know to ask for
• What the desire to be worshiped often means
• How to lead your feminine partner without putting them into their masculine;

Clip #4 [12:46] - Creating polarity when you live and work together
• Normalizing the fact that no one lives in a constant state of polarity with their partner;
• You can create polarity in a moment;
• How to out-masculine your partner;

Clip #5 [19:28] - Expressing desire through the body
• How to use your eyes, breath, and body instead of words;
• Our stories can be an indicator of our growth;

Clip #6 [24:32] - Supporting your partner when they are at their edge
• Things to say when they hit an edge;
• John guides a practice for helping a partner to deepen their breath;

Clip #7 [35:17] - Embodying “She who must be commanded into surrender”
• John works with a feminine practitioner to transmit desire through her body;
• Embodied desire is a spiritual practice;
• How to change up your practice if it becomes routine;

Clip #8 [40:27] - Connecting with our masculine and feminine desires
• Understanding the core masculine desire;
• Receive first so you can give;
• Playing your partner’s body like an instrument;
• The under-nourished masculine is less available for relating;