The Art of Expressing Your Needs
For Couples: Teachings
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35m
In this compilation, from the December 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy, John focuses on identifying, distinguishing, and working with your needs. David Deida was the featured teacher for this workshop and is referenced by John in this compilation.
You’ll learn:
* Our deepest needs are non-negotiable
* Every human has masculine and feminine capacities
* When needs are not met we often give a “first stage” complaint
* Once we can connect with our true needs, we can feel our partner’s needs
* Healthy and Sacred expressions of our needs
* Often we think we need to do something or be something and call that a need. But a true need is felt in the body as a craving.
* We can be with our needs rather than “practice over them.”
* The need to know and express all parts of our heart
* Showing our need through our eyes and breath
* We hide our needs because we think they are unattractive but actually they are magnetic
* The femine genius is using the body to express a need
* Sometimes we’re so busy “doing” that we pay very little attention to our needs
* Many men suffer from not giving their feminine space to express
* If we (men) judge our own feminine, we will also judge the feminine in our partners.
* How to open as a need so that it becomes an invitation
* Revealing our need through our body rather than projecting at our partner
* Holding the pose
* The importance of circulating our partner’s energy
* Feeling our partner’s needs
* Aching with the need to be sated, obliterated, and filled
* Owning our need creates a response in our partner’s body
* Our inability to stay with our needs is limitations and habits of our body mind
This is a compilation of teaching sessions by John Wineland, recorded live for his proprietary 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy. Production copyright and copyright 2020 by John Wineland. All rights reserved. For more information, please visit www.johnwineland.com.
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