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When we charge our magnets, we create an arc of energy.
It tends to get confused - let's simplify it down to its Essence.
At its core, sexual polarity is the dance of love light and consciousness.
The instrument for expression is the body (Fem - light/Masc - Consciousness)
Need the body to feel the love and the depth of the consciousness
The grounded deep consciousness of the masculine is witness to everything happening in this moment. When we concentrate everything happening in the essence of love light, or into the gaze, breathe posture, now we're cooking. Now we get to move with these things. That is the nature of Polarity.

Simple but not easy practice.

Come back to this aspect again and again. Three pillars - Intimacy (amplify our sameness, our shared humanness, spiritual essence, shoot for oneness), Devotion to love (devotional to what will liberate love more than devotional to being right, protecting yourself, playing out my childhood patterns, withdrawing, punishing), Sexual Polarity (how we're different, the arch of energy between two people)

Questions:

1. How does the polarity within ourselves help to extend it into partnership.

Feel the pulse of life that is living you, bring your awareness to it and feel what it is being experienced. When with a partner, let go of some of the awareness and let your partner be the awareness, and amplify the experience - or vice versa. When we enter into a partnership, we sometimes have to allow our partner's nervous system to acclimate to our energetic openness and practice. Sometimes we are ahead of our partners. Women are evolutionarily ahead of men in this type of practice.

2. Boundaries are getting crossed - how to work with this? I want to do a good job at addressing a question when it is the right time.

If your boundaries are crossed there always has to be a consequence for a crossed boundary. Sometimes you have to have a clear conversation if they are unable to do what you are asking them to do. If she doesn't feel safe she may be withheld. She may be cautious.

3. New relationship - moved in together with a child in the mix.

When we commit to creating a family, your brain goes "Now I am back home" - our child wounds come online. What bothers us about our partners is what bothered us in our childhoods.

4. How to work with a partner who is dismissive/avoidant.

If you are in a relationship with someone who is unaware they are that, you're setting yourself up for torture, or you have to be willing to accept it. Giving everything to an avoidant/dismissive means that you love them with lots of space, no expectation for them to own their part.

5. What is the first and best practice to expand masculine practice
Breath is the foundation. 1% progress a day really adds up.

6. Desire to express anger in a way that they can metabolize it (without blowing their system) opt for the immediate response to what is true. Being an invitation to dive into your broken hearted anguish and to be wide with it.

7. Having a hard time connecting to his desire, and is only able to access his depth in times of crisis. Just start a few minutes a day - 1% better.

8. Invitation vs. Neediness - Feel it in your body. The desire to be filled.