Office Hours Group Coaching Call: July 15th
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1h 44m
Opening Practice:
Stop and take a moment - allow your body to drop - whatever that means for you - while you allow your breath to elongate.
Feel what your heart is longing for.
Feel the humanity that is here to share more love.
Call Discussion:
What is the meaning of life? How much love are we able to transmit and receive in the course of our lives?
Any moment not spent in loving yourself or others is a wasted moment
Q&A:
1. How to navigate dating and communicate what you need at the moment?
What does Love look like at that moment? How do we discern "is this love?"
Lean in and open with the moment.
What creates a deeper field of love - orient towards that.
I am The Offering of Love: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/i-am-the-offering-of-love
Modulating Energy: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/feminine-practices/videos/modulate-your-energy-and-emotions-with-intention
Reclaim your wild woman: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/feminine-practices/videos/reclaiming-your-wild-woman
2. How to heal the Freeze/Fawn response and be open to receive.
Lean into your men.
What makes you feel alive/ Wrap your life around these things.
Prioritize loving yourself - when we do, the world starts responding to us in different ways.
3. Noticing a pattern of dissociation in practice. Resistance in practicing solo at home - Pop out of practice. How to stop leaving solo practice/
What does loving and caring for yourself through practice look like?
Slow it down - shorten the time
The goal is not to go through the whole practice but to BE IN the practice fully. Expand the amount of time over time. You need to build up - we don't have the capacity right away.
Find things that feel good.
Measure success by how much you loved, and loved yourself in what you were doing, not how long you went.
4. Fear of when the Lust and Magnetism begin to dissipate - start to notice how you aren't compatible with anything beyond the honeymoon phase.
Protection vs. discernment? Protection - love gets squished. Discernment is still very open, heartfelt and loving.
How to make art out of the things that bother us about our partner?
Talk about our snakes when we start dating. Doesn't mean we want to leave, but we lay it all out on the table.
Shadow work Podcast: https://youtu.be/DG2htw2i3Cs?feature=shared
In addition to the podcast, here is a 2-part series on ERE about shadow:
Shadow Work Liberating What We Unconsciously Repress, Deny, and Avoid
5. Navigating a relationship where the man is unable to provide financially?
What are your non-negotiables?
Be in the exploration of honouring your truth without getting caught up in the future, and everything else just works out - amplify the field of love.
Things get muddy when we leave the present moment because we are afraid of what will happen in the future.
6. Navigating dating men with strong masculine vs. feminine. Head vs. Heart.
Trust the thing that feels like love
Often, we protect ourselves by future tripping rather than loving the one who is in front of us.
Trust the next right steps.
7. Non-Negotiables and Material support in a relationship
What I would need is... This serves a man
Give him something to meet - he needs to know what is true in your heart
8. Navigating purpose in partnership and parenthood
Go into the underworld.
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