Opening Meditation - Going back to your source centres.

1. Masculine Reconciliation support.

2. Support around Grieving and Acceptance - Particularly around acceptance.

Take a break from everything and focus on what happened. Do a reconciliation (put yourself in her shoes - be ruthlessly honest and self-reflective). Unhook from the past dynamics. And within this, there will be grief. Your work is to bless her on her way. Own what needs to be owned and give her space to say what she needs to say. Give your grief a container. Nothing else matters unless we do the deep inner work to heal what needs healing inside us.

https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/embodied-grief-practice

3. Support integrating and experience for ASI Austin, Feb 2026. She is feeling out of body after a practice - leaving. her body in a way different from her usual dissociation. In practice, she felt in her body - after the practice, the body had a reaction.

She opened up a channel to such deep energy that her body needed time to recalibrate. Sometimes when we tap into the pure source of life, it's huge! (Live wire of Shakti).

Maintain awareness of source centres as Shakti begins to move.

4. What do I really need - beyond the needs that stem from wounds?

Learn to ask for what you need in real time (from legitimate needs)

You will know your needs are right because the field of love will bloom.

Sometimes the moment calls for something deeper than your wounded needs - in that place, the practice is to give what I think I need from my wounds (3rd stage practice). How do I be the safety the moment needs rather than seek the safety my wounded child needed when they were young? Moment-to-moment exploration of what serves the field of love between you and your partner (it will change moment to moment). Give it in a way that our partner would feel it as safety. In these moments, you are tapped into a deeper place than your childhood wounds.

The truth is beyond me.

5. Working with the pieces of us that are uncertain in relationships. "I'm going to ask to see if you can help me, and to see if you can help me". Here is my truth and what I need, i.e., I need more contact.

Do you feel that she has chosen you? "Choose a woman who chooses you."

Both of your truths can exist simultaneously. "I want to feel what your truth is. I want to love you while you are sharing what your truth is."

Always start with Truth.

Sacred intimacy requires emotional safety and erotic magic

6. How to live a life of purpose, freedom and loving service - how to structure sessions in coaching - do you follow intuition or the structure of a methodology?

Start with what you are practicing, as this is what people are going to feel.

Start with something that sets the tone and then relax into the emergent field and see what comes through.

"What do I need to do with my life so that I can die complete?" And point your life in that direction.

What we teach comes from our practice - this is where we get sensitive.