The relationship work that no one wants to do - the deep soul searching work that requires us to face the patterning and wounding of our childhood and how they show up in a relationship

Taught that we have control but so much of who we are and how we are created and how we think and see the world - we actually have no control over.

Modalities of work that we can do as we become aware of this (our karma) - Embodiment the idea that we can open as - Meant to get us to the truth of who we are - love and consciousness. Infinite I Am.

Authenticity vs. Truth - We get our bodies to remember and tap into the love and consciousness that is our true nature.  That can happen really fast as soon as you learn it.  You can learn you generate and tap into love and rest in consciousness.

It can change your pattern but it doesn't often get into the wound - What is the source of the reaction?

To change our relationship karma we have to do all the work - The embodiment and the trauma work.  Get to the source of your wound and train your body to open as the deepest wound.

"What is it in me that...?"  "How do I go into the underworld and touch that while remaining open?"

Our devotion to love demands our personal healing (not perfection)  - But space and deep intimacy created by learning how to be with the source of pain and stay related to each other.

Also requires nervous system training that can sit with it without reacting and cutting.

Quickest way to detach from pattern is to open as the pure source of love and consciousness - no thought. Impossible to live that way all day long.  At some point we have to dig in the dirt.

1.  How do we know when a trigger/wound is complete within us or that we are not bypassing?

No sensation or closure.  Find a way to witness and feel at the same time. Narrate the "Whoosh".  Don't create a story (Blame and shame or go into self referential - spiral pit).  Make it a full body experience.

2.  Differentiating between the masculine and the feminine.  Hold to rest more in the masculine - what does that mean and how do I feel into it?

3.  Moving forward from a moment in which a partner is triggered.

Find the expression of truth and not the story of victimhood

4.  Had an embodied awakening and wants to give her love and devotion to a man after a moment of feeling betrayed by a lover. Where do I go now?

5.  Lots of energy in the lower body by the heart in cinched.

Sometimes we are the ones that the heart is protecting against.  Maybe it's actually the heart being brilliant and protecting the little one.

6.  How to get your partner into the work?

You do it by not asking him. Bring your pleasure and desire without any demand.

7.  How to create more space for the light energy and the sparkle.

https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/feminine-practices/videos/celebrating-the-vibration-of-love

https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/feminine-practices/videos/feminine-expression-practice-pleasure-emotion-love

johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/feminine-practices/videos/13-meet-your-body-in-the-moment-and-celebrate

8.  Sharing practices and this work with your children.

Thanks!