There are 2 aspects of the Divine.

We are in the perfect practice when we have masculine and feminine aspects of practice conjoined - anything that is not that is our pattern and our story. It doesn't make it wrong - but it is important to understand that if we want to act and love and experience the world from a different place, we always have to return to the aspects of ourselves that are pure and without story.

When we bring our awareness to love, it gets amplified.

Whatever we bring our awareness to gets amplified.

Bring awareness to the pulse of life - you are in perfect practice. We can't stay there all the time, but over time, it gets better and better.

People who are enlightened just have their awareness of life more than we do - more than story and pattern.

This is how we love better and how we show up more deeply in our intimacy.

1. Inviting energy versus pushing energy - particularly in a sexual experience.

Moving with the pulse of love:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/09-moving-with-the-pulse-of-love

Relaxed Openness - Where the Ocean Meets the Mountain: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/10-relaxed-openness-where-the-ocean-meets-the-mountain

Feminine Expression Practice: Pleasure, Emotion and Love https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/feminine-expression-practice-pleasure-emotion-love

Revealing and Holding Space for Masculine & Feminine Yearning and Forgiveness: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/realing-and-holding-space-for

Practice - Relaxing Into The Flames of Desire:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/partner-practices/videos/04-relaxing-into-the-flames-of-desire

Seeing Through the Eyes of the Heart:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/19-see-each-other-through-the-eyes-of-the-heart

Being a yes to everything: The dance of love and consciousness: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/52-being-a-yes-to-everything-the-dance-of-love-and-consciousness

Moved by the Pulse of Life:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/15-practice-moved-by-pulse-of-life

Heart Invitation, Heart Penetration:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/heart-invitation-heart-penetration-1

2. Questions regarding a Masculine Cleanse and wildly fluctuating energy - how to meet the fluctuations without bypassing them or making them mean too much.

Embodied Grounding Breath Practice:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/grounding-breath-practice-1

ChiGong practice for Grounding and Circulating Energy: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/qigong-practice-for-grounding-and-circulating-energy

Embodied Grief Practice:
https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/embodied-grief-practice

Grounding, Gratitude and Opening Wider than fear: https://johnwinelandstreaming.vhx.tv/videos/grounding-gratitude-and-opening-wider-than-fear-2

3. Why is grief so confusing with love (mixing the two) and feeling and about having such a deep emotional connection with someone, but not feeling the sexual attraction - how to navigate it.

There is no end to grief, and there is no end to love.

4. Offering embodiment to other men/finding other men - start with just 1 man.

5. Feminine Cleanse and masculine attention - listen to your heart.

Choose yourself before waiting for a man to choose you - put yourself first.

Fear of the rebound of starvation.

6. Having a hard time reaching a ball of sadness within - can clean out the whispers, but not the actual weight of it.

7. Practices to protect your energy from overly sexual energy from women.

Give women clarity - lead with clarity and a sense of personal integrity.

Stand in your powerful truth.

8. Super careful about dating in his own area - what is his own pattern and fear and having his relationship be seen.

Don't force it - let them appear

What is the deep work you need to do to cleanse the vessel? The women (deeper women) will come as they feel you do that - it's relational physics.

Less about the where, and more about what you need to address right now to attract the most potent partner for you.