Are you willing to let the world fall away — to dissolve distraction, time, and the need to do — and rest in the vastness of pure awareness? To touch the truth of who you are requires stillness. It requires breath. And a devotion to meeting life from the depth of your being.

In this 30-minute pr...

Archetypes are energetic blueprints — embodied expressions of deeper truths that live within us all. When we step into an archetype with intention, we awaken dormant aspects of ourselves and offer our partner something raw, sacred, and unexpected.

In this 37-minute couples practice from The Art ...

When two people come together in breath, something beyond the individual begins to emerge. Breath becomes the bridge. The conduit. The pulse of “we.” The outside world ceases to exist and all that is present is the love that exists between two individuals, moved by the pulse of life itself.
As a ...

Desire is not just a longing — it is a transmission. A radiance. A force that wants to be felt, expressed, and received. But for many of us, claiming what we truly want feels risky. We fear being too much. Too tender. Too bold. So we stay quiet, and the very magic that could emerge through connec...

Polarity is often misunderstood as something rigid — two people locked into opposing roles, one holding structure, the other surrendering. But real-life intimacy is rarely that fixed. True polarity lives on a continuum.

In this 16-minute compilation from The Art of Sacred Intimacy (Austin, 2025)...

As a masculine practitioner, your breath is one of the most direct ways to transmit presence, power, and love. It is how the feminine feels your heart — not as performance, but as truth.

Can you allow your breath to carry what is most alive in you? Can you trust that your undefended heart is eno...

Do you find it challenging to bring the emotions and energy you feel inside your heart to the surface - through your expression, your communication, or your love?

You may have learned at some point that it wasn’t safe to fully express your truth. And yet, something in you knows it’s time to brea...

Having our needs met is a natural and essential part of being human. It requires a reciprocal dance of giving and receiving, of offering love and being open to receive it in return.

But for many of us, when we are deep in the giving, a voice eventually rises: “What about me?”

This voice is not ...

In this compilation, from the December 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy, John focuses on identifying, distinguishing, and working with your needs. David Deida was the featured teacher for this workshop and is referenced by John in this compilation.

You’ll learn:

* Our deepest needs are non-negoti...

Do you struggle to boldly claim your desire and yearning? Maybe you hesitate, afraid of how it will be received—worried it will feel more like a demand than an offering of your deepest heart. Do you grip onto expectations, attaching your fulfillment to something or someone outside of yourself? Ha...

Your desires are transmissions of the Divine moving through you. They are the purest expression of your humanity. Allow them to fully inhabit your body, your practices and your life - and they will become magnetic.

In this masterclass, recorded on January 8, 2022 with a world-wide virtual audien...

The desire of the feminine is a gift unto itself, yet for many women, fully owning and expressing that desire can be one of the most challenging acts. The gift of the masculine is to lovingly witness and hold her in her desire, while calling her forward into deeper expression and truth. Together,...

As a man, asking for what you want can be overwhelming. But, standing in front of the temple priestess, tell her, what is your deepest heart's desire? How do you yearn to be gifted this desire? She knows pleasure, she knows the ways of the heart and the body. Can you trust and surrender to her kn...

Do you feel a disconnect between having a relaxed nervous system and stoking the fires of passion in your relationship? Does it seem as though deep relaxation and erotic energy exist on opposite ends of a spectrum—one requiring surrender and softness, the other requiring intensity and desire? The...

In this practice from The Valentine's Immersion 2022, John leads partners through a solo breath practice to enliven the body and open the heart before inviting them into connection to share and meet the essence of each other’s deepest heart’s desires. Both partners will have the opportunity to gi...